I had a bomb dropped on me today.
Han had been digging through Dianna’s old stuff: boxes she kept up in the attic and in the backs of closets, that sort of thing. He was hit hard by Dianna’s death, and seems to be hanging on to anything he can use to remember her by.
That’s not what he says, of course. He’s been insisting Dianna asked him to find a few things. He’s, you know, a little crazy.
Well, today he brought me a small box of photos and letters. They weren’t familiar to me, and I have no idea where he found them, but they had belonged to Dianna. I’m sure she’d been hiding them from me for the entire time we’ve been together.
Judging from the various states of construction in the background and the size of Dianna’s belly, these photos were taken over a span of years from around the time Dianna and I started dating to just after the triplets were born.
Under normal circumstances, I’d be devastated. However, there were two major factors that enabled me to keep my composure. The first is that, of course, I already knew what had been going on. I mean, look how many people were involved. You don’t mess around with that many people over that many years without leaving a few clues behind.
I loved Dianna. I loved her with all my heart. At the risk of speaking unkindly of the dead, she was a bit of a slut. So what? She was a wonderful wife, a terrific mother, and a beautiful person. Yeah, she messed around a bit on the side. Nobody’s perfect.
Even if I hadn’t known, there was the second factor: the note Dianna had tucked into the box with the photos.
My Dearest Apollo,
If you’re reading this, you probably hate me. I don’t know why I keep this stuff around, and some day I just know it’s going to bite me in the ass, but you know how I am about throwing memories away. That extends to memories I’m not particularly proud of.
So, why did I do it? I don’t know. Maybe I needed more validation than one man could ever give me. Maybe I’ve got some kind of mental disorder (that’d put to rest the debate over which of us Han got it from, wouldn’t it?). A hormonal imbalance, maybe? Whatever it is, it’s not you, as they say, it’s me.
I’m going to say the same thing I’d say to you regardless of whether or not you knew my dirty little secret: I love you. I have always loved you. I have loved you since our very first chess game (which, incidentally, I let you win). I love you as much as a wife has ever loved her husband, and how could I not? You are an amazing man, Apollo, and I’m lucky to have married you.
I hope you have it in your heart to forgive me. If not now, some day.
I love you, Apollo. I always have, and I always will,
Your grateful wife,
Dianna
I would give anything to tell the mother of my children and the love of my life that yes, of course, I forgive her.