It feels like somewhere in the span of time between when I left work this morning, and when I got home, my kids sprouted into teenagers. It seems like it was just yesterday that they were in elementary school, learning the fundamentals of readin’, writin’, and ‘rithmetic, and now they’re learning advanced algebra, studying physics, and dissecting things. Where does the time go?
I’m incredibly proud of the people my three children have become. They are all extremely intelligent, exceedingly kind, and unfairly good-looking (though, considering their genetic stock, that part was inevitable). However, for all the traits they share, it’s been fascinating to watch as each grows into his or her own person, right before my eyes.
Take Luke, for example. The firstborn by only a few minutes, he’s grown into an amazing young man and a natural leader. People flock to him like bees to honey — they just seem to hang on every word he says. I credit his mom for that — while I’ve always been something of a socially awkward penguin, Dianna was the one with all the magnetism and people skills. However, he did inherit some of my mechanical aptitude, which has been a godsend. I’m sure it’s my fault for going cheap with a lot of the components our home was built from, but it seems things are breaking constantly. Fortunately, Luke enjoys fixing stuff possibly even more than I do, and he’s saved the family a fortune on repair bills. Now if I could just get him to mop up when he’s done. “Neat” is not a word in Luke’s vocabulary.
He’s also become the de facto diplomat for the triplets. If they’ve decided they want something, and negotiation with the parental units is going to be required, they send in Luke. He’s just got something about him that makes him hard to say “no” to, and they fully take advantage of it. Smart kids.
If one of the kids is “the smart one,” though, it’s Leia. She can most often be found with her nose buried in a book, or leading one of the after-school study sessions where the triplets help each other with their homework. She’s probably turned out the most like me: maybe a bit on the introverted side, and her brain is running a thousand miles an hour all the time. She’s also showing some decidedly geeky tendencies as she grows up, sharing my love for all things space and sci-fi related. I really thought when she was younger that she was going to turn out like her mom and Luke was going to be just like me, but while Luke has become more and more “normal,” as he grows up, Leia has grown into a serious nerd. I mean, she’s got it bad: she even likes the odd-numbered Star Trek movies.
Then there’s Han. I’m going to preface this by saying that I absolutely adore my son, and he’s a wonderful person. However, while Luke and Leia can both be a bit moody — something I attribute to them being teenagers, and hope they’ll grow out of eventually — Han takes it to extremes. Trying to follow Han’s mood swings is like riding a roller coaster that likes to fly off the tracks at regular intervals. He is, as the school counselor likes to diplomatic put it, “a troubled boy.”
I feel for the kid. His frequent outbursts and inappropriate behavior can be very off-putting, and he’s had trouble making friends who can deal with them. As a result, he seems to have developed a tendency to just avoid people altogether, preferring instead to spend all his time at the computer, where he devotes a lot of time to writing. I was amazed recently when I struck up a discussion with him and he began telling me he’d actually finished several books, and used Amazon to self-publish them. He showed me his account page, and as it turns out, my kid is actually pulling in a pretty hefty income from what I thought was just a hobby. When I asked him what he spends it on, he wouldn’t tell me, but he’s definitely pulling in more than I was when he came into the world, which is pretty impressive for a teenager. He’s got my respect.